VuVa Neodymium Magnetic Vaginal Dilators Sizes 5,6,7

These have been incredibly helpful to me so far, but not quite in the same way they've helped others who've left reviews. While they do work as advertised in terms of gradually stretching things out and helping me relax and accommodate a large penis, their biggest benefit to me has actually been one of empowerment. For so long I was ashamed of having painful intercourse and thought there was something wrong with me - that I was frigid, or up tight about sex, or just old. When I got the dilators, though, I have learned can fit the smallest size of the large kit very comfortably, and the next size up if I go gently, so I know the issue is not so much that I can't handle normal sex but rather that my husband is bigger than even the largest size! Bringing the kit to appointments and literally putting the various sizes on the doctor's desk has helped me demonstrate to doctors and sex therapists that it's not so much a matter of my being "disordered" (because women all too easily end up being pathologized, especially when it comes to reproduction), but rather that my husband's anatomy is a real challenge for comfortable intercourse. This has been a game changer. I have actually framed it as "maybe I don't need pelvic floor therapy as much as my husband needs penis reduction therapy" and that has made everyone laugh and taken me out of the hot seat as the "woman with the problem". I'm incredibly grateful for this reality check, not only for me but also for my medical providers.

On the advice of my gynecologist who said I needed to buy a dilator, I found Vuvatech online and ordered the 5, 6, 7. I never had a problem with insertion before but my new boyfriend is very well endowed and it was painful for both of us. I started with number six and graduated to number 7 after about 3 weeks. That was more difficult and it took another 5 weeks to feel very comfortable. I do believe that I have reached my goal and I will be going to see my boyfriend in several days. We have a long distance relationship so I did have the time to concentrate on dilating twice a day as directed. I had a question about burning and emailed Vuvatech. Tara responded in 2 days and answered my question. I was very happy about that. Thanks to Vuvatek I feel I am where I need to be and it does work.

I'm 52 yrs old and assume my issue is atrophy. I'm post menopausal which I believe is the cause along with lack of much activity due to a drop in drive that comes with hormone changes. I bought the 3 sizes down from this set just to be safe, not knowing what would be comfortable. They fit fine, no pain, so I purchased this set. The smallest one proved I needed stretching at this point, but within a week with mild pain, it became comfortable. However, in moving up to the second size in the set, I've only been able to get 1/3 of it inserted and after a month, I've made no progress. When I try to move it deeper carefully and slowly, the pain escalates quickly. It feels as it I'm hitting a wall. I've had my normal yearly check-ups, and all is normal. I have some adhesion above the opening which limits the stretch, and my doctor said its all hormone related, and that more activity would help, however we haven't been able to. I'm not giving up, but I fear I won't be able to ever get to the next size. PS: My doctor offered hormone therapy but I've declined due to the risks that come with it.

My Atrophy came with menopause and boy was it painful if I tried to have intercourse. I started with the middle one for a few days then moved to the largest. I believe the magnets are what set these apart from others as it increases blood flow to the area. I also added a v- moisturizer from Moon Maid Botanicals and I am finally able to enjoy life again, if you know what I mean. It took roughly a week to get things to the point where it no longer hurt. That was over a year ago and I haven’t had to use them anymore but I’ll keep them just in case. Everyone’s situation is different but these are a life saver. I also moisturize everyday.

Sex was very painful in the past but these now allow me to have 0 pain. I only had to use them for under a week daily. Everyone is different, though. Tampons or fingers were no issue just sex. I was so worried and had a lot or anxiety surrounding sex for awhile. Now I feel confident and comfortable due to these dialators. Tara is also amazing and any questions I had she answered. I'm very happy!