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Why Does Sex Hurt Me? 4 Possible Dyspareunia Causes

Mengapa Seks Menyakitkan Saya? 4 Kemungkinan Punca Dispareunia

by Caroline Knight in Peduli

Tiada wanita yang mahu bertanya soalan ini, tetapi malangnya ia adalah perkara biasa. Mengapa seks menyakitkan? Ia sepatutnya menjadi pengalaman yang menyeronokkan dan menghubungkan, tetapi jika ada yang menghalangnya, itu adalah kesakitan (atau ketakutan). Persoalan mengapa seks menyakitkan mungkin mempunyai pelbagai jawapan yang mungkin. Dyspareunia ialah nama untuk seks yang menyakitkan, dan anda mungkin mengalami dispareunia kerana masalah fizikal atau psikologi.

Dalam artikel ini kami akan melakukan yang terbaik untuk membantu anda memahami sebab seks menyakitkan anda supaya anda bersedia untuk melakukan sesuatu mengenainya. Jadi mari kita terus ke inti…

Mengapa seks menyakitkan?

Punca seks yang menyakitkan tidak selalu mudah untuk dikenalpasti, tetapi anda sepatutnya boleh mendapatkan diagnosis yang betul dengan syarat anda berjumpa dengan profesional penjagaan kesihatan yang berkelayakan. Jika sebab seks yang menyakitkan tidak jelas atau anda tidak berjaya mencari penyelesaian, anda sepatutnya melakukannya.

Di bawah ialah empat sebab paling biasa seks menyakitkan:

Keradangan

Keradangan adalah punca biasa dispareunia. Jika seks menyakitkan anda, mungkin terdapat keadaan keradangan yang mendasari jangkitan, jadi seks yang menyakitkan boleh menjadi gejala itu. Satu contoh yang baik ialah jangkitan yis (seriawan), yang boleh menyebabkan kerengsaan dan kelembutan pada tisu yang terjejas. Anda juga mungkin ingin diperiksa untuk penyakit kelamin, kerana beberapa penyakit itu boleh menyebabkan kerengsaan dan keradangan.

Pudendal neuralgia

Walaupun ia tidak biasa seperti beberapa punca lain dispareunia, kerosakan saraf pelvis boleh mengakibatkan kesakitan semasa hubungan seks. Kesakitan saraf cenderung berasa berbeza dengan tisu yang merengsa; ia mungkin berbaloi untuk membaca tentang neuralgia pudendal dan jika mana-mana simptom sepadan, hubungi Doktor anda adalah idea yang baik.

Atrofi faraj

Wanita yang telah melalui menopaus mungkin mendapati bahawa seks menyakitkan. Sama ada menopaus datang lebih awal atau akibat daripada kemoterapi atau rawatan kanser yang serupa, hasilnya mungkin sama. Apabila seorang wanita mengalami menopaus tahap estrogennya beransur-ansur menurun. Ini boleh mengakibatkan kulit lebih nipis dan mudah koyak, atau pelinciran berkurangan. Sebenarnya terdapat pelbagai simptom atrofi faraj yang mungkin menyebabkan seks menyakitkan.

Begitu juga, prosedur pembedahan invasif seperti histerektomi mungkin merosakkan otot pelvis, jadi seks boleh menyakitkan selepas itu. Penurunan hormon mungkin menyebabkan kehilangan libido juga, dan cuba memaksanya apabila anda tidak merasakan ia boleh mengakibatkan kesakitan.

Vaginismus

Atas pelbagai sebab, wanita boleh mempunyai ketakutan terhadap sebarang jenis penembusan, dan selalunya seks khususnya. Jika seks menyakiti anda, anda perlu mempertimbangkan sama ada anda mempunyai perkaitan negatif dengannya, atau ketakutan di sekelilingnya.

Jika anda mempunyai vaginismus, otot faraj anda berkemungkinan akan mengecut dan kekejangan, atau menyebabkan saluran peranakan tertutup sepenuhnya, yang dengan sendirinya boleh menyebabkan kesakitan. Percubaan melakukan persetubuhan ketika dalam keadaan ini boleh menyebabkan lebih kesakitan. Umumnya vaginismus perlu dirawat secara psikologi, fizikal atau kedua-duanya pada masa yang sama, jadi rujuk pengamal penjagaan kesihatan anda untuk mendapatkan diagnosis vaginismus .

Apa yang perlu dilakukan jika seks menyakitkan

Jika seks menyakitkan, cuba untuk tidak mengabaikan masalah itu. Perkara ini tidak selalunya hilang tanpa campur tangan, walaupun campur tangan itu adalah sesuatu yang anda lakukan dalam privasi rumah anda. Sebagai contoh, ramai wanita dapat mengatasi masalah seksual dan keadaan sakit menggunakan pembesaran faraj , tetapi masih wajar untuk berjumpa Doktor untuk menolak sebarang keadaan perubatan yang mendasari - hanya untuk berada di bahagian yang selamat.

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